The day you were married, you probably knelt together and shared a prayer during your wedding ceremony. In front of family and friends, you helped cement your union through this joint conversation with the Lord. Sadly, many couples never pray together again.
Don’t misunderstand—prayer when you are alone, with a friend, in a Bible study, or in church is extremely important and valued just as much by our heavenly Father. But there is something special about prayer between husband, wife, and God that can’t be found elsewhere. It creates a spiritual connection, accountability, and a holy bond that brings strength and stability to the relationship. It can even allow you to communicate about sensitive issues that might otherwise never come out—issues that can be discussed and prayed over in a spirit of humility and purity of motive.
The old saw “The family that prays together, stays together” still applies today. We encourage you to remember it the next time you kneel in prayer.
Just between us…
- When was our last meaningful prayer time together?
- What’s the most common obstacle that keeps us from praying together?
- How do you feel about praying with me?
- How could we benefit from praying as a couple?
- Should we schedule a regular time of prayer together?
From Night Light For Couples, by Dr. James & Shirley Dobson
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