I (jcd) once attended a wedding in a beautiful garden setting. After the minister told the groom to kiss the bride, about 150 colorful, helium‐filled balloons were released into the blue sky. Within a few seconds the balloons were scattered, some rising hundreds of feet overhead and others cruising toward the horizon. A few balloons struggled to clear the upper branches of the trees, while the showoffs became mere pinpoints of color in the sky.
Like balloons, some boys and girls are born with more helium than others. They soar effortlessly to the heights, while others wobble dangerously close to the trees. Their frantic folks run along underneath, huffing and puffing to keep them airborne.
Are you a parent of a low‐flying child? Over the years, I’ve worked with hundreds of families whose children were struggling in one way or another. Based on what I’ve seen, let me pass along a word of encouragement to worried parents: Sometimes the child who has the most trouble getting off the ground eventually reaches the greatest height!
Just between us…
- What kinds of balloons do our kids most resemble?
- Do we tend to panic when our low‐fliers drift in the wrong direction?
- Do we love them any less than those who soar?
- How can we avoid prematurely judging how a child will turn out?
- How can we pump more “helium” into our relationship with our low‐flier?
From Night Light For Couples, by Dr. James & Shirley Dobson
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