“’I hate divorce,’ says the Lord God of Israel.” Malachi 2:16
Who would know better than the architect of marriage that living with another
person day in and day out isn’t always easy? God understands what we’re going
through, even in our worst circumstances. When Paul stated that “those who marry
will face many troubles in this life” (1 Corinthians 7:28), he wasn’t kidding! Fortunately, God has given us a blueprint in
Scripture for success and fulfillment in our marriage relationship. The Lord
designed marriage for our benefit, and He knows that destroying this partnership
is harmful to us in countless ways.
No wonder God hates divorce. He has made it clear that the concept of
separating permanently from one’s marriage partner is not only unacceptable, but
abhorrent. The only exception He has recorded for us is in the case of adultery,
and even in that situation there is room for forgiveness and reconciliation if
we follow Christ’s merciful example.
Our encouragement to you as a husband and wife who seek God’s best is a very
personal one. As Jim and I have sought out and followed the Word of God, we have
found all the stability and fulfillment in our marriage that He has promised!
And you will, too. Marriage is His idea, after all, and His principles and
values naturally produce harmony between people. It’s sinful behaviors that kill
a relationship.
When your time of “many troubles” strikes, Satan will be ready at just the
right moment to suggest the “solution” of divorce. Perhaps you’ve already
arrived at this place in the past. Surely you know and love couples who have
come to this moment, and have chosen to believe Satan’s lie.
My prayer is that you will believe God instead.
- Shirley M Dobson
From Night Light For Couples, by Dr. James
& Shirley Dobson
Copyright © 2000 by James Dobson, Inc. All rights
reserved.